Something to Think About: Doomed to Love Bad??

Recently I read somewhere that humans instinctively choose people to fall in love with who are MOST DISSIMILAR by their sense of smell, through pheromones. This is because we instinctively want to find someone who is genetically very different from us in order to avoid too close of genetic matching and ensure the most varied gene pool for the potential of producing an offspring who inherits the best genes from the most diverse pool possible.

This begs the question: Are we doomed to fall in love with people who are so dissimilar from us that they are, most likely, “bad” for us in some way, emotionally?  Obviously not bad for us PHYSICALLY, according to instinct—but, technically, we don’t need to be attracted to or get attached to someone who is desirable emotionally, according to this scientific theory.

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